Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Complaining

In today’s society people don’t have the courage to stand up to make their circumstances better. However, I don’t believe the answers to the problems would be remedied by complaining. Americans in this generation do not like to complain because they do not want to create a scene or do not want to be obtrusive. By being apathetic to the problem they allow the issue to slide by as long as it does not offend anyone in the process. They are so concerned with what others think and say that they will mind their own business and remain indifferent. If there is a problem people should not be afraid to bring it to attention and resolve it.

On the other hand people should not complain all the time either; the issue however should be brought to their attention in a tactful manner. People tend to get caught up in the thought that they are “complaining” but what if people simply express their concern with whatever their issue at that time may be. If people come across in a respectful and polite manner, the person on the receiving end of the “complaint” may not see it as that, but rather feedback they need to better their services. Because American’s struggle with how to address their concerns they have become passive since they have been trained by the norms of society not to make a scene. Americans individually need to make a stand to go against the predominant thought that they should not complain, but instead bring up their problems in way that is not rude or disparaging either.

Actions

Our actions and the decisions we make will shape us into who we become and how other people see us. At the same time though we are the potters of our own destiny and we can mold our lives into whatever we choose by the choices we make. If we make the wrong choices we are tainted by those choices for the rest of our lives, but in contrast, by choosing the high road life yields many greater possibilities.

Whenever we think about who we will become, we also have to think about what we have done. If we just walk through this world thinking that what we do doesn’t affect us, we are wrong and will eventually pay for our ignorance. Fortunately there is hope for those of us who realize this universal fact and act according to our beliefs to build an image of ourselves that we can be proud of. Every choice affects you, making you who you are. It also seems that how we act and behave will be judged, not just by us, but by our peers and the people around us. I believe this to be accurate because when I was in high school I tried my very best and strived to accomplish the tasks given to me so that I could obtain a good grade point average and then in light of that get into college. The choice I made to excel in my academic and extracurricular studies were judged by society who then verified my future and who I am now, which is a college student. I believe that our actions don’t only determine who we are now but echo through eternity influencing future generations to come after our deaths.

Tuesday, April 28, 2009

A little insite into Othello

The character of Othello in Shakespeare's play "Othello", gives real insight into the very real human condition of jealousy and how far it can take a person down the wrong path. Othello at first was a good man who loved his wife and his country. Although it seemed he had the perfect life he had many flaws which he was very aware of and which he tried to cover up by surrounding himself with people who were strong in his weak areas which in turn would compliment him, such as Michael Cassio his lieutenant. Though he looked to minimize his weaknesses and maximize his strengths he was still open to many of the vices that challenge mankind, jealousy in particular.
The antagonist Iago, Othello's ancient, used his wit and charisma to turn Othello's "green eyed monster" against Othello to advance his own personal gains. Though Othello was a general, a man who does not brashly rush into action without thinking it over, he was also ignorant of the opposite sex and their behavior which Iago used to his advantage. Othello let his emotions lead him instead his head causing him to descend into a spiraling web of bad choices and misunderstood circumstances. His weakness of not trusting his wife, trusting Iago, and letting jealousy take hold of him and control him was his tragic flaw which directly resulted in his unfortunate fate at the end of the play.

Trying to get a job

When applying for a job there are certain criteria to be expected from the person wanting employment as well as the employer who is doing the hiring. If you are the person in search of a job it is proper to show up well dressed, well mannered, prepared to answer any of the questions required of you, and have questions you might want to ask the employer. Like wise the employer should be ready to and able to fully explain the requirements of the job, how much they are willing to pay the employee, how many hours they will be expecting to work, etc.
Although this would be the most appropriate why to do business we all know that sometimes things do not go as planned no matter how well mannered or ready you are. For instance I recently applied for a job as a life guard at a pool where I had worked the previous year. The man doing the hiring was new but I had worked with him for a month before I had to leave for the summer and before I left he offered me the job next year when I came back. I was very pleased with this idea but when I came back the following year he treated me as a stranger. I persisted to ask him for the job and he kept making excuses and putting me off yet I did not deter. I was determined to get the job. Finally after putting me off on three separate occasions he finally gave me the job. Although I did every thing right there are just some people who are uncooperative. There is nothing else to do with those people but to persist until they say they are not going to hire you, for you just might actually get through to them eventually.

Monday, April 27, 2009

Applying for College

Many students, especially high school seniors, do not realize how important it is to get their applications for college in to the schools of their choice. They think they can just turn their applications in at the last second and get in right away like all the other people who did it two months before them. This though is a substantial flaw in their thinking. Even if they get their applications in on the date it is due they do not realize the length of time it is going to take to process their application as well as the time it takes for the school to respond back to them. This holds even more truth for a bigger or more prestigious college. If the student thinks they are just going to apply and hear back from their college within a week or so they are going to be very disappointed. Especially if they are planning on making arrangements to live on campus and need to sign up for specific classes. The student needs to take into account that they might not get into the school of their choice as well as time needed to make arrangements for if they do get into their school.
It would extremely behoove the student to apply for early application so that they have the time to make important decisions about what school they would like to go to (if they applied to multiple school), about their living situation once they are at college, and the classes they need to sign up for. These are all most serious decisions that students need to think of when applying for college because it is the rest of their lives they are deciding about and it is not smart to take it lightly. For before the student knows it they are going to in college then on to the profession which will help support them for the rest of their lives.

Fat --- Americans

We all know that America has the highest obesity rates out of every nation. This is primarily due to the massive over eating problem that the United States has. It seems like every where people look there is a fast food restaurant or other type of restaurant right there at the tips of their fingers begging them to come and eat at their restaurant. Although this does a great deal to cause the obesity rate it is not the only thing. The massive amount of products that we regularly buy and are vigorously advertised on the television on packed with calories, sugar, and many more things we can not even pronounce. These processed foods are seriously lacking in the healthy nutrients and vitamins that are essential for a person to live.
This type of food is exactly why about 33 percent of Americans are obese. The solution, though simple, is very tough for the average American even if they are not obese. If Americans would incorporate more whole grains, fruits, and vegetables in their diets then they would lead much healthier lives. They do not only need to do it for themselves but for their children as well. For the parents feed their children these unhealthy types of food which teaches them bad eating habits and causes future rates of problems caused by obesity to significantly increase. I know Americans love their greasy foods and sugary desserts but at some point they just need to step back and look at what is really good for them.

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Do Americans take America for Granted?

America on average I believe has become more and more self centered. Americans are too in love with themselves and their precious possessions and personal lives that they have taken for granted what truly matters. Americans do not realize how good they have it in the land of the free. They see the news and the countless wars, oppression, hunger, and death but yet it does not faze them. They are too worried about what makes them happy and how things will benefit them. Most know American history and the struggles the colonists made to secure their freedoms and liberty from their oppressors but now that all the fighting is over and done with Americans take for granted the liberties they have and the freedoms that were bought with blood by their ancestors. They do not truly love their nation. Most Americans, except obviously for the military, do not know what it means to fight a die for something they believe in. They are not ready to put their lives on the line to protect the way of life and the things they hold dear. Americans need to stop living in this dream world of theirs and get off tier lazy butts and do something for their country. If they would simply do that then America would not be such a horrible place that other countries look down on and say are fat and self centered but are instead forth right and strive to do what is best for the common good. Finally then Americans would not take America for granted they would have a part in shaping it with their own hands.